Valentine's Day is next week, and if you're still wondering who you will be spending it with, then take matters into your own hands by asking him out. I hear guys like a woman who knows what she wants, but if you don't have the nerve to do it face to face, maybe you can break the ice by sending him an anonymous invitation. HadtoSay.com allows you to do just that after you create an account. Then all you have to do is send him a note via a masked email or note card, and wait for him to read it. The note will have a secret PIN and ID number that will point him to the site, where he can opt to leave a message for you too. All messages are public, so you might want to take the conversation elsewhere when things start heating up. Watch the video below to see how you can lure in a few dates next week.